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What Do Others Think ?

What Do Others Think ?

What others think of us can become the focus of our thoughts in quiet moments, at big decision times, when stuff goes wrong and especially when performance review time comes around. As so often in our culture we work on the principle that the absence of negative feedback or criticism means we’re doing ok. We often shy away from asking ‘what do they think’. This can be because we’re not sure how to go about it or we’re embarrassed by asking or we think the other person will be embarrassed. You’re right, you could be embarrassed, they could be embarrassed....

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